Comments on: Recovery from Infidelity

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By: char

char — Tue, 11 Oct 2011 15:05:05 +0000

for info try survivinginfidelity.com and read the healing library. It has excellent articles and lots of supporting people, both betrayed spouses and wayward spouses. You can post your thoughts and get much feedback from others who are or have been in your shoes.

By: glenda

glenda — Sat, 08 Oct 2011 14:38:55 +0000

Wow. What an incredible piece – thank you for that perspective… Incredibly healing and enlightening. In light of the fact that infidelity is more prevalent that we believe and for the 0ne third who don’t bolt – could use more info on navigating the healing process. And yes – I agree it is an opportunity. Thank you Wendy.

By: Elle

Elle — Fri, 09 Sep 2011 18:16:29 +0000

You make some really good points. And I think, if we’re able to access our best selves during the period following disclosure, then much healing can be done. The problem, of course, is that after such a traumatic violation of trust, many of us can barely get out of bed, let alone figure out what information we need to heal and what is “pain-shopping” or extraneous. And without a spouse or other support who can truly hold us while we repiece our shattered hearts, it can be incredibly challenging. What we need is more open conversation around the issue of infidelity. Because it’s vilified – and frequently the spouse who chooses to stay is deemed a doormat – we hide it in the shadows. As a result, too many of us suffer alone, out of fear of exposing our betraying spouses to further vilification or fear of being viewed as pathetic for staying. Society cheers the woman who storms out the door or kicks her husband out. The rest of us, who try to stay and work it out, are somehow suspect.
Infidelity is far too common to allow it to remain in the shadows. I’d love to hear more people share their stories and offer up the support of one who’s been there. I invite any betrayed wives (or husbands) to share their stories on my site…and join the conversation.
Thanks to you, Wendy, for participating in the conversation.

By: ferrel thomas

ferrel thomas — Mon, 29 Aug 2011 14:36:42 +0000

Having affairs confirmes for me that Iam not monogamous in my relationships. I search for intimacey and find it in relationships where I focus on my needs to be held appreciated and touch. Something that I haven’t been able to do for my self is get the same feelings of appreciation for myself as I do from others when they appreciate and hold and touch me both in my heart and body.

By: Dawn

Dawn — Sat, 27 Aug 2011 04:19:27 +0000

Good article. It makes some very true points i.e. “learning to ask for what your heart needs to know and not your mind” I was diagnosed in 2004 with Ovarian Cancer and my husbands affair began in 2007 – He thought once I was done with chemotherapy it was over I was cured. Little did he realize that surviving cancer takes on a whole life of it’s own (if you let it) and so began our unraveling. I found out in 2009 and we are still married however, it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done. Working through infidelity is 100 x’s harder than dealing with a year of chemotherapy. Thank you very much for the article, I’m not alone.