Comments on: The Cost of Infidelity

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By: John

John — Mon, 09 Jan 2012 18:16:14 +0000

First hand I have learned that it is not always about picking wisely or good communication. At the core of infidelity is the brokenness of an individual. The living of a lie may not be intolerable to that person but it will create strain for them. It may not create an internal desert where love will not grow, but infidelity will defiantly take some of the rain away and make the relationship less than it should be. The broken of some people allows for dual lives. It is not easily seen before and the person’s family can seem very normal, so picking wisely is not as easy as it seems. I have not found an answer. I have found my path and will work at healing myself while watching my spouse work through healing what they have done to the relationship and me. While there is commonality in all of this, each couples path is unique. There are no guarantees. No one is immune to infidelity. I realize now that the comfort and security anyone feels is a fantasy when the security relies on the actions of others. And that is really OK. The only security we can find is in ourselves. Finding it in ourselves is a lifelong journey. Trusting yourself may sound simple but for most people who really look at themselves, their motivations and desires it is difficult and complicated.

By: Dee

Dee — Sat, 07 Jan 2012 04:30:27 +0000

It is so important to pick a partner wisely but that doesn’t mean that person won’t make a mistake. However, if the relationship starts off with good communication that can help it through the down periods and maybe even stop an affair from taking place.