Lunch with the Loveologist

Nourish your relationship with the wisdom of loveology. Whet your appetite with Wendy’s disarmingly practical advice to create the healthy intimacy you crave. Satisfy your curiosity and find answers to your questions about how love and intimacy feed each other and create the foundation for authentic and sustainable loving relationships.

Each show explores the ecology of love through interviews with renowned sex therapists, leading green innovators, and thought provoking authors about how love leads us and gives meaning to life. Through our in depth discussions about how doing what we love changes the world – our own and all those we touch, the conversations creates an opportunity to look creatively at the questions that can lead us towards healthy loving relationships.

Many discussions will also unpack the significant mystery of making love. Don’t miss this refreshing and enlightening conversations that will help you to access the wonder of human sexuality in your own life.

Sustainable Love Minutes

Learn how to see your love with new eyes. Wendy’s love minutes will wake up your desire to cultivate the heart of your life. Loving is a verb and learning the basic skill set that makes relationships workable is the goal of each episode. Take a few minutes to think about how to make your relationship healthy and vital. Watch the rest of your life flourish with love at its core.

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Tantric Sex With Dr. Judy

February 29th, 2012

If you have ever felt like a complete idiot when it comes to creating healthy relationships or using tantra techniques to take your intimate life to the next level,  don’t miss this talk with Dr Judy who has been helping people solve their relationship and intimacy issues for decades on her own syndicated radio show.  Whether offering tips for working with orgasmic challenges or emotional hurdles, Dr Judy is the go to relationship and sex expert, author, columnist who offers direct and easy to apply advice that will lead you down a path toward healthier and more loving relationships.

The Neutering of the American Male

February 23rd, 2012

Listen as author Jim Wysong, shares his hard won wisdom of confronting and overcoming the challenges of being male in today’s society. His new book,  The Neutering of the American Male,  offers an healthy alternative to the doom and gloom media predictions of the end of men in American society. Jim argues that  the changing societal conditions demand a new balance of love and respect between the sexes, one that leaves all of us happier and stronger.

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Listen to the Bees…

February 15th, 2012

Honey bees are messengers of love.   The Honey bee hive is a super-organism, living in harmony with 50,000 other bees in a single hive.  They are the pollinators for some 70% of the world’s food, transforming the essence of plant life into honey and other healing and nutrient rich products.   Man has lived peaceably with honeybees for thousands of years until recently, when scientists began studying and trying to solve the crisis identified as Colony Collapse Disorder.   Over half of all the honeybees on the planet have died in the last few years.  Albert Einstein predicted that the death of the honey bees will predate our own demise by only 4 years.   This collapse is our own.  The Queen of the Sun,  a film by Taggart Siegel that demonstrates how the loss of the honey bee is the most critical environmental issue of our time.  Listen to this interview and see the movie, and I guarantee you will never see honey the same way again.  Honey bees permeate life with love.

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Wired for Love with Stan Tatkin

February 8th, 2012

Learn to make sense of the pain and insecurity that plagues our most intimate relationships with Dr. Stan Tatkin, author of Wired for Love. His reassuring voice resonates with deep wisdom about how to grow the skill base that can turn your relationship into the safe, engaging and healing journey that it was meant to be. Stan’s knowledge is grounded in the latest brain science and extensive research and demonstrates a way out of the dead end conflicts by reinforcing the neural circuits that grow empathetic loving relationships.

Don’t miss this conversation that may well help you put your relationship first, leading to the most satisfying emotional healing in your life.

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Emotional Intelligence with Harvey Deutschendorf

February 1st, 2012

Emotional Intelligence is the ability to identify, articulate and work with your emotional life and that of others.  A century ago, Darwin associated these skills with human survival and ability to adapt.   Don’t miss this conversation with Harvey Deutschendorf, author of THE OTHER KIND OF SMART

Learn how our capacity for emotional intelligence can expand as well as how crucial it it to any lasting success in life.

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Sexual Pleasure Heals with Dr. Ian Kerner

January 25th, 2012

Known as America’s sex therapist, Ian Kerner offers some of the sagest advice you will ever hear in this not to be missed conversation about how sexual pleasure heals our life.  Ian’s is a clear voice of sexual sanity clarifies everything from the power of enhanced foreplay and oral sex to the mystery and complexity of opening to your sexual fantasies.  If you are like millions of others who are dissatisfied with their sex life, this conversation might be just the medicine that yours needs to rethink  your sexuality and revitalize your capacity for intimacy.

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Becoming Curious with Dr. Todd Kashdan

January 18th, 2012

Becoming curious is one of the most expedient mind tools we have  to creating a positive life and healthy relationships.  Curiosity is the often untapped exploration dial in our brain which balances our tendency toward anxiety and opens the gate to more connected and fulfilling relationships.   Don’t miss Todd Kashdan, author of Curious? Discover the Missing Ingredient to a Fulfilling Life enlighten you on all the ways that our natural capacity for curiosity can anchor you to a meaningful and joyful daily life.

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Sexually Normal with Debby Herbenick, PhD

January 11th, 2012

The most popular and first question that people ask about sex is “Am I normal?”  So begins this revelatory conversation with Debby Herbenick, PhD, one of the most respected and well known voices on human sexuality. As both a lead researcher and educator, her most recent book,  Great in Bed is a compendium of how to technique and unforgettable stories with co-author Grant Stoddard.   Our conversation will open your eyes to the wonder of what it means to be a sexual human being and all that there is yet to learn and understand about our sexual anatomy.  A conversation not to be missed for the sexually literate.

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Laughter and Purpose with Mark Gungor

January 4th, 2012

Listen as Mark Gungor shares his candid and comedic approach to bringing more laughter and purpose to intimate relationships.  Using the church as a base for marriage education,  Mark dispels the myths of both the overly romantic or overly spiritual ideas that prevent people from doing the committed work of loving and caring for one another.   This conversation will wake you up to the power and inspiration that a little bit of humor can bring to long term relationships.

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Making Sense of People with Dr. Samuel Barondes

December 28th, 2011

There might be no more perplexing part of life than Making Sense of People.  Listen as author and well known Psychiatrist, Dr. Samuel Barondes explores the mystery of the developing brain and the ways that our behavior is built into us.  His four step method for deciphering the complex and sometimes challenging behaviors of those that we both love and love to hate.  Gaining a deeper understanding of how your own behavior is a result of both heredity and your developing environment.  Don’t miss this conversation sure to inspire a deeper look at the relationships in your life that make you who you are.

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